Monday, October 26, 2015

William's Mementos

Along this road of life after loss, we've accumulated messages and gifts from family, friends, even people who we've never met but were moved by William's story. It's pretty amazing. Our goal this month is to revisit all the beautiful cards and small tokens that have brought us comfort over the year. They mean so much to us.

You may wonder how we are doing. And it's easy for us to say "OK" or even "good" because sometimes it's just easier than explaining how we really feel. Most of the time there aren't any words but something has to come out. As we come closer to William's 1st birthday/anniversary of his death we feel like we are where we should be. It's hard to say we feel good, because well... sometimes we don't. Some say that you never really get over losing a child, you just learn to live with the pain. We find this to be true so far. We miss him everyday. But he also brings us happiness everyday with his cute little grin :)

We are moving forward and it just seems like it's time to reflect and continue healing.

The most important message for this post is to THANK YOU for all the support.

A collection of mementos to remember William, some gifted, some bought, all with love. A football toy, handmade burp blankets, personalized candle, angel ornaments, jewelry, rainbow art, handmade star, and many more beautiful gifts! 

Autumn angel I bought and wanted to share!
A special gift from Aunt Anne & Alex on display in our favorite part of the house, the kitchen.

Originally a baby shower decoration, I always thought I'd have this "twinkle twinkle" print on display in his nursery. For now it brings a little sparkle to my nightstand.  

There's actually more gifts stored away or in use around the house.  His most precious items have been carefully placed in his memory box and some in his special basket. We're looking forward to sharing these most special items with you when the time is right. 

Hugs,
Liz and Tom

2 comments:

  1. This makes me feel happy for you. I think you are right where you are suppose to be. Miss and love you!

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  2. Miss you and love you guys too! Sending hugs to the southwest :)

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